For any of you who have followed me for a while now, you know I am very much into finding out who you truly are and living out your purpose. I am an advocate for doing whatever makes you happy in life, whether others approve of it or not. I recently found myself very disconnected from my purpose in business and really in life overall. My purpose in how I should be serving the world. To say I have changed in the past few months, yet again, would be a massive understatement!
I have gone through multiple life altering changes over the past two years. From anxiety, to divorce, to a move many states away, a new relationship, getting sober and now a miracle pregnancy! SO many layers and stories have been shed. So many phases of life have ended and begun in a matter of two years it is hard to believe I am the woman that sits here and writes this blog today.
My website no longer fits the woman I am. It no longer fits my interests, my purpose or my vision for the future. So with a brand new page, a brand new outlook, it is time for me to show up without influence. Influence of what others are achieving around me. What others are doing to create their dream life. This is about me. My purpose. My story.
While I learned an insane amount in my first full year in business, I also struggled with my niche, over and over again. I was making it extremely hard on myself to niche down and find my ideal client etc.
What did I learn? It doesn't matter how many times someone tells you, "You need to find your ideal client." If it does not align with you, you will not succeed! This goes for anything in your life or business. If you are not fully on board with the idea/desire, whatever the case may be - there is an insecurity that appears over and over again. A disconnection that others will pick up on.
While I think learning from others is a wonderful way to grow, you have to remember who you are. I was very guilty of the comparison game - if she is doing that and it works, that is what I have to do. Except, that makes you a follower and not a leader.
I know to run a successful business, blog, life - I must be a leader and not someone who caves into what others are doing. This fresh start is so much more than another "rebrand". It is so much more than colors, fonts and Instagram followers.
This fresh start is me. Fully imperfect. Fully sober. Fully relatable me.
Thank you to those who have stuck around to see me find my stride over the past few years. And thank you to those of you who are new here.
This blog is my life. My passions. My experience. Authentically.
The layers have been shed. Let's see what this next phase has to offer! I am excited! Are you?
With so much love, positive vibes, and gratitude